Have you ever walked down the stairs of your house and all of a sudden you see your brother's friends there? Maybe one of them smiles at you and winks, making you excited? Maybe you've dated your brother and his friends joined him, or do you need transportation and his friend offers to drive you? Are you tired of seeing how your friends get all the boys? And also that they always flirt like professionals? Well, here is a girl's guide on how to flirt / attract your older brother's friends, and maybe, just maybe, they'll like you too!
Steps
Step 1. Say hello
When you see your brother's friends in the lobby, don't stare at them. If they are alone and you are the only ones there, then you can smile at him or say “Hi _____”, but don't get too close or he will walk away from you.
Step 2. Talk a little
When you are at your house and they are there, with your brother present of course, make up an excuse to be able to go where they are, and talk with them a bit. Guys generally like it when you confront them, and some find it attractive too. Also, don't just go sit and chat. Your brother might get upset, and realize that something is up. You might say something like, "Guys, I'm going to make a cup of tea and I wanted to know if you'd like some." If your brother's friend plays sports, you could go to a game and bump into him gently. Don't be shy and don't make the moment feel awkward.
Step 3. Many times guys don't even care about your appearance; it's how you act and approach him
Earn his interest, don't just talk to him about yourself, "talk about him." If there's one thing guys love, it's having someone's attention. With shy guys, you need to be a bit outgoing, but don't overdo it or get too involved in his personal affairs, it can be annoying for him.
Step 4. Become an object of desire for him
You know if you see him in the hallway with another girl you might get jealous. Now reverse it. Don't try to make him jealous by flirting with someone else, but when you find a casually acquaintance in front of your brother's friend, talk to him. You will go crazy trying to get the same attention. He will want you!
Step 5. Find out what she's passionate about and use it to your advantage
Don't like just their tastes unless you actually enjoy them, but try to learn more about them. For example, if he likes bowling, the next time you see him, casually mention a meeting to go play. Who knows what he will say when he finds out that you like the same things as him.
Step 6. Talk to your brother
You must not go very far without their consent. But that doesn't mean you have to tell him that you like his friend, especially if you know he might get angry or upset.
Step 7. You must show security, and make him want to be with you more and more
You will definitely notice if he comes to your house more often and is always talking to you.
Step 8. Be healthy and clean your hair, brush your teeth, clean your nails, keep your ears clean, eat healthy and eliminate acne
Guys understand being flawed, but don't go overboard on this. They will like you even more if they "physically like you." This means that you have to stay active!
Step 9. Always smile and be nice
Don't burp and don't be rude because you're not a boy.
Step 10. Last but not least, be yourself
Try to show him that you are good the way you are and that you will not change for him. Do not leave it. If you want to get energy and change your appearance, or you want to change the way you do some things, that's fine, but don't start using drugs, smoking, or drinking alcohol just to get his attention or to be with him.
Advice
- Little by little touch him on the arm or leg when his joke is very funny. For example: Haha, Oh _____ you are so funny.
- Dress or wear something that attracts their attention. For example: tight blouses, tight pants, a nice necklace or purse.
- Be positive. If you feel good about yourself, they will notice and will love your company and, of course, you.
- Show off all your positive characteristics. Wave your hair a bit. Licking your lips makes guys think about kissing you. Also touching your neck is good.
- He talks about the things in the room, or about the people, as long as it is not from his friends. Don't mention your brother, unless he brings it up first. It could be a bad sign. Don't talk to your brother about him either.
- You know your brother well enough to know what kind of girls he likes or dates, well, he's his friend so there's a chance he likes the same kind of girls too. It is not about changing who you are, but if you can incorporate those things into yourself without changing the way you are, it would be perfect.
Warnings
- Don't forget to be you and not someone else. If it doesn't work with him, there are plenty of other guys in the world and try not to make it uncomfortable for your brother when they go out and break up. You don't want him to lose a friendship just because of you.
- That your appearance is not dirty or vulgar when you are with him / them. It will make them feel uncomfortable.
- Laugh a lot. Guys like it when girls laugh at their jokes, but don't explode. A nice giggle would be nice.
- Since there may be older girls who like you too, don't tell all your friends about your secret crush on your brother's friend. If you do, it could spread out and some girls might even get jealous or angry, because maybe your brother's friend could be your friend's brother.
- Don't be seen as clumsy or lazy. Don't wait for them. When they are out in a group and at your house, try to relax with them so that you can hang out with them. An invitation is always given eventually.
- Don't be bland. Don't talk or be boring. Surprise him with interesting conversations and try to keep it up. But don't force him to talk about something. Guys hate when girls make them do something they don't want to do.
- Don't be the girl who harasses him, or sits around waiting for him. Take charge! Show him how amazing you are.
- Don't bother him all the time. Don't pretend to be clumsy, brag, or brag. That is very disrespectful. And do not talk about other people with him, the news travels very fast, even in the world of boys.
- Don't chew gum, especially fruit flavored, or make bombshell while talking. This looks ordinary and immature; what you want is that the boy thinks that you are mature enough for your age.
- Don't do it unless you're sure your brother won't mind. If so, you wouldn't want him to be after your best friend.