Male strippers make their living by embodying the fantasies of their clients. This job requires more than big muscles, and you should give it a try only if you like being on stage in front of others. A successful stripper works out regularly and has a charismatic personality. You should also buy an outfit and work out a dance routine. Opportunities to be a stripper can be found by talking to agencies, other strippers, and potential clients. If you work hard and have an open mind, you can become a successful stripper.
Steps
Part 1 of 4: Perfecting Your Body and Personality
Step 1. Improve your social skills
As an entertainer, you will have to work half naked and in front of large and rowdy crowds. You will also need to interact with your customers. Spend some time talking to strangers. Practice until you feel completely open about yourself. You will have to be able to look anyone in the eye with a smile.
The goal is to make customers feel special. Make conversations focus on the person you are talking to rather than yourself
Step 2. Get in shape
Strippers help people visualize their fantasies, so you have to look your best. Muscle mass is important. You don't have to look like the Incredible Hulk, but you will need defined muscles and abs. Visit a gym and start lifting weights two or three times a week. When you're not in the gym, be active with other activities, like running or swimming.
Clients have a variety of tastes, so men with different body types can find work as strippers
Step 3. Eat healthy foods to lose body fat
Minimize body fat by stopping consuming fat. Replace fats, sugars, and salt with fruits, vegetables, and whole foods. Increase your intake of lean protein. Chicken and fish are good choices, as they are lean cuts of meat, eggs, and almonds. Get whey protein powder and mix it with water for a snack.
Step 4. Take dance classes
A successful presentation includes smooth and attractive body movements. Find dance classes in your area so you can learn. Male cabaret or erotic dance classes will teach you a lot. Hip hop moves are also included in many strippers' routines, so these classes may be an option.
These types of dance classes also serve as social exposure. Use them to get an idea of whether or not becoming a stripper is the best for you
Step 5. Create a stage name
Your stage name should be short for your stripper character. It will be used to introduce yourself, so it should communicate what kind of experience people can expect. Many known strippers use their real names. This makes them identifiable, but a stage name can do the same and sound better at the same time. Pick a name that sounds seductive and exciting.
For example, John Smith does not stand out. You can use a name like “André Fiesta” or “Danny Salvaje”
Part 2 of 4: Create Your Dance Routine
Step 1. Buy a good quality portable speaker
Playing dance music on your phone won't help your routine. Most customers will not have sound systems that they can loan to you. Look for wireless speakers. Good quality ones provide better sound quality, but also have a high volume. The music has to be loud enough so that you can hear it despite the noise your customers make. Look for reviews online before you commit to buying a speaker.
- When giving a presentation on stage, you don't have to bring a sound system. However, many strippers get jobs at private parties, so having a portable speaker helps.
- Wireless speakers can play the songs you save on your phone. You can burn CDs and play them on normal speakers.
Step 2. Put on an outfit
The first step to having a good suit is authenticity. A Halloween outfit won't help at all. Search online. Sometimes authentic outfits can be found on sites like eBay. Peel-off clothing is a popular choice, and a tailor or seamstress can help you add snaps or Velcro. Complete the outfit with eye-catching and attractive underwear.
- Some stage shows will provide you with an outfit. When you are just starting out or working in someone's house, you will need to have your own outfit.
- It helps to buy more outfits while you work. You can't satisfy someone who wants a firefighter outfit when all you have is a police uniform.
Step 3. Choose songs that are consistent with the theme of your routine
These songs should be related to the outfit you choose. A good selection of songs will make your routine feel compact. If your clients know these songs and can sing them, your dance will be even better. The best songs are the ones you enjoy dancing to, as it will make your performance more authentic.
For example, a firefighter routine might include songs like "Disco Inferno" or "Hot In Herre."
Step 4. Customize the songs when mixing
Buy a mixing program. There are free options, such as Audacity, or the GarageBand application. These will allow you to cut the songs and join them. Playing the entire song will not be attractive. Instead, cut out the best bits and put them together so they flow well.
- You can also add sound effects to your songs. Add a police siren or fire horn if it works well in your routine. These sounds can be found online.
- It is best to keep the music simple. It should not take away your prominence.
Step 5. Watch the male strippers perform for dance move ideas
Going out to watch professional strippers dance is the best research possible. Pay attention to movements that involve people. You can also search for recorded presentations online. Look for videos of male strippers. Videos that teach cabaret or hip hop dancing can also be helpful.
Step 6. Plan your routine
Stripping is a performance, so looking attractive won't automatically make you good on stage. You don't have to plan every step of your dance, but you should have ideas for some flashy moves. Pick out some engaging and entertaining moves and perform them on strategic parts of the songs.
For example, take off your jacket when the bass plays on the first song. When the second song starts, take off your shirt
Step 7. Practice your dance
Work on your routine whenever you can. Memorize the music so you don't get lost in the middle of a presentation. Concentrate on making your movements effortlessly while keeping your face oriented towards your audience. Remember to look into the eyes of the people in the audience and smile to make them feel special.
Practicing can be difficult. Start with people you trust, like a loved one, a dance class, or a small group of friends
Part 3 of 4: Find a job
Step 1. Take professional photos
Face photos are just as beneficial for strippers as they are for actors. Full body photos are also required for this business. The agencies will use them to advertise you. They should not look cheap. It is best to let a professional take them. Smile and look at the camera to make your eyes look lively.
- You must not wear your outfit. In striptease, you will be wearing a lot of outfits, so wearing one is now limiting.
- Take both black and white and color photos. Then ask the agency to make copies for you.
Step 2. Contact legitimate agencies in the area where you live
A good agency is vital to make you known. There are many reputable agencies, but also some bad ones. Search for information online before calling or emailing a business. Check that it is a registered company of a limited company or anonymous company that has civil liability insurance. Also, make sure it gets good feedback from customers and other entertainers.
- Stay away from companies that charge you to put your photo or tell you that you cannot work for other agencies.
- Businesses that seem to advertise scores of male strippers are also bad businesses. Chances are, they don't have enough work to offer.
Step 3. Take part in the magazine shows
Look for establishments that offer men's shows on stage. Tell the organizer of the show that you are interested in being part of the cast. He can lead you in the right direction. Many times, they will let you into shows for free and you will be able to watch the performances. Sometimes, they will give you a chance to audition.
Topless waiters play an important role in many shows. You will most likely start out as a bartender until you learn to make introductions
Step 4. Talk to strippers in person
Go to shows to see what the mechanics are. Talk to other entertainers. They will be happy to guide you in the right direction and give you tips on how to improve. They could also arrange an interview with your organization or with other owners of the place.
Becoming friends with other strippers will help you. They can give you opportunities to introduce yourself that they couldn't create on their own
Step 5. Introduce yourself to commitments
At first, it will be difficult to find work. You will have to introduce yourself as a toples waiter or have short-term jobs. If you want to get into business, you will have to show up at these events. Don't cancel at the last minute. A company that trusts you will give you more work. Losing that confidence can be the difference between success or failure in this industry.
Part 4 of 4: Dealing with Customers
Step 1. Socialize with your customers
During your presentations, smile and look your clients in the eye. Show kindness and confidence. When you're not introducing yourself, talk to them. Stay focused on them by asking questions like "Can you tell me something interesting about yourself?" Making the customer feel special makes your presentation successful. They will pay to see you and refer you to others.
Step 2. Treat all customers with respect
As a stripper, you will deal with a variety of clients. Depending on your situation, you may work for men or women. The ages and behavior of customers will vary. Remember that your role as an entertainer is to please your customers. Keep your charisma and smile as much as you can. Be courteous to keep clients interested in your presentation.
Treating customers badly breaks the illusion of connection they have with you as an entertainer. You will lose their interest and you may start to develop a bad reputation
Step 3. Go where your clients go after you finish your presentation
As a stripper, you are essentially a salesperson. You should do whatever it takes to bring people to your presentation or get them to buy your services. Relax and spend time using your social skills. When someone asks you what you do for a living, tell them and invite them.
- Strip clubs are always good places to advertise yourself, especially if you work in one of them.
- Different types of people attend different places. For example, if you want to perform in front of wealthy middle-aged women, try spending time at a wine bar.
Step 4. Ignore people who are not interested
You can't please everyone. Clients have different wishes in a stripper or a presentation. Pay attention to which customers enjoy your presentation. Disinterested customers won't look thrilled. They may get distracted by their phone or not smile at you when you interact with them. You better interact with the people who enjoy your presentation, as they are the ones who will pay you.
Step 5. Avoid romantic relationships with clients
These kinds of romantic relationships aren't always bad, but it's easy to fall overboard. In a charged atmosphere, you will have more customers who will want more. These relationships can ruin the illusion of connection between the stripper and the client. Remember that it is a job. Treat customers well, but don't take advantage of them.
Advice
- If you have a partner, make sure they are comfortable with the idea of you being a stripper.
- Try to have a closet with a variety of outfits. This will help you in private shows.
- You will have clients who will touch you inappropriately. Laugh instead of confronting them. End your presentation if you feel uncomfortable.
- Being a good stripper takes hard work. You have to spend a lot of time keeping your body in shape and mastering dance routines.
Warnings
- Consider having a phone number or email that is linked to your stripper name, and use it only for work. Giving your personal information to many clients could lead to problems in the future.
- Be aware of the law. Some jurisdictions have strict rules regarding nudity and physical contact in strip clubs.
- Be careful of your surroundings. Traveling places can be dangerous. Leaving a club with tip money can also be dangerous.