If you want to dance erotically, you have to let yourself go, be sexy and move your body with confidence. To do an unforgettable erotic dance, you will need to set the mood and be graceful with and without the chair. If you want to know how to dance erotically to drive your partner crazy, you just have to follow these steps.
Steps
Part 1 of 4: Set the mood
Step 1. Wear sexy clothes
You don't have to look like an exotic dancer to dance erotically. Just put on an outfit that enhances your best features and lets you move in comfort. You can wear sports leggings (leggings, leggings) and a sports top over lingerie, a maxi dress, or anything that makes you feel sexy.
If you decide to combine the dance with a striptease, lingerie and petite dresses will be a good option for this. If you wear a garter belt, you will need to put undergarments on top. High heels make your legs look sexy
Step 2. Play sensual music
Pick some music that is sensual enough to set the mood and is also lively enough for you to dance. Practice dancing ahead of time to make sure it's good for a lap dance, not lovemaking. A normal erotic dance should not last more than 1 or 2 minutes. If you do it right, then your partner will want to have you before the first song is over. Anyway, it is better to be prepared with several songs so as not to run out of music in the middle of your dance. Here are some sensual songs that are perfect for erotic dance:
- "So Alive" by Love And Rockets
- Duran Duran's "Skin Trade"
- "Cream" by Prince
- Billy Idol's "Cradle of Love"
- INXS's "Not Enough Time"
- "Say it Right" by Nelly Furtado
- AC / DC's "Let Me Put My Love Into You"
- "Love Me Like You Do" by Ellie Goulding
- Zayn's "wRoNg"
- Rihanna's "Work"
Step 3. Dim the lights
Erotic dances are more sensual if you don't do them under bright lights. Dim the lights in your house, throw a scarf or cloth over bright lamps, or even light some candles. The lights should be bright enough so that your partner can see you moving your body but not so bright that they can see every freckle on your face.
Step 4. Choose a strong chair
If you want to do a good erotic dance, then the chair should be just as important as the person sitting there. Choose a chair with sturdy, thick legs and a high, reliable back. The chair should also support you and your partner's weight comfortably. If you choose a chair that is too fragile and it ends up falling or breaking, it will be difficult to recover.
Step 5. Have your partner sit in the chair
Tell your partner to sit in the chair. You should not sit as if you are in a conference. It should be comfortable, slightly stooped and with the legs slightly spread. Your body should say "Come dance on me."
Part 2 of 4: Get Sensual Approach
Step 1. Strut into the room
Walk into the room like a pro who has done erotic dance millions of times and knows she is excellent at it. Walk with one foot in front of the other, your back straight and your shoulders high. Start by moving your hips up and down and slowly sliding your hands along your body to give your partner an idea of what is to come.
Step 2. Keep the expression correct
Make sensual eye contact and then look away from your partner and look down at your body every now and then. You should keep your lips parted and smile a little, just enough for your partner to see that you know how sensual you are.
Step 3. Go around the chair
Strut casually around the chair, continuing the hips up and down to the music. Caress your partner's shoulder and even lower your body to the ground when you are behind her, to get her more into the environment.
Step 4. Have a seat
Erotic dancing cannot begin until you are on your partner's lap. Stand in front of her with your chest tilted toward her face and your butt slightly out. And slowly it goes down onto his lap.
Step 5. Wrap one leg around the back of the chair and then the other
This should prevent you from falling out of the chair.
Step 6. Wrap your arms around your partner's neck
To start, wrap your arms around your partner's neck as you continue to move your body up and down.
Step 7. Play with your partner
While their bodies are very close, move your body against hers, lean your face close to hers, and lean in to kiss him. But only a quick kiss on the lips that leaves her wanting more. Don't get too sexy before showing your every move.
Part 3 of 4: Show Your Moves
Step 1. Move forward like a sex goddess
Slowly remove your legs from the chair and stand between his spread legs. Place your hands on his knees and move towards his face. Then lower until you are moving your body from side to side with your face close to his stomach. Place your hands on their sides for a second and then slowly come back up.
Step 2. Move in a figure eight
Everything is concentrated in the hips. Just stand in front of your partner and move your hips in a figure of eight until he can't seem to take it anymore. As you do this, move your hands from the air to your breasts and then down the sides. You can even try turning around while doing it.
Step 3. Touch yourself
Push your partner firmly against the chair and stand in front of her. Don't let their bodies touch. Move your hands up and down your body, as if you were running a foaming soap over your body. Be sensual and close your eyes. Pretend you're in the shower, if that helps you get in the mood. If he tries to reach you, slap his hand.
Step 4. Shake your butt
Turn around while standing between your partner's legs and slowly lower yourself until your hands are close to the ground and you are shaking your butt near their crotch, stomach, or even up to their face. Continue to move your body seductively as you do so and then slowly return to a standing position.
- If you're feeling confident, you can even turn around and give her a subtle smile as you do so.
- For a change, you can put your hands on your partner's knees instead of the ground.
Step 5. Bend back
Sit on your partner's lap while keeping one arm around their shoulder. Slide your free arm down until you are almost touching the ground and your chest is front and center. Gently move your free hand up and down as if you were riding a bull in slow motion.
Step 6. Bend back even further
If you feel like her erotic dance skills are the order of the day and you have a flexible back, then move your free arm further down until it touches the floor and your pelvis is rotating against your partner's. Now, take the hand that is wrapped around his neck and slide it towards the ground as well. Move it up and down while the other hand stays planted on the ground. Keep moving your hips and your body as you do so.
Step 7. Dance behind your partner
If you are feeling really sexy, stand behind the chair, looking at the back of your partner's head. Gently lower your chest towards his head. Move your body down while stroking the area above her waist to her face. Don't try to do it for more than 15 seconds or your partner will go crazy.
Part 4 of 4: Make a fancy outing
Step 1. Take one leg off the back of the chair and then the other
Lean forward to make it easier to unhook your leg from the back of the chair.
Step 2. Place your hands on your partner's shoulders
Be firm but not too rude.
Step 3. Keep your butt in the air
Push your chest closer to your partner while pushing your butt and back out for balance.
Step 4. Use your body to move into a standing position
Slowly push yourself onto their shoulders until your feet are firmly planted in the standing position and you find your balance.
Step 5. Don't stop being sexy
Don't leave your chair like you're leaving a business meeting. Keep moving your hips and run your hands over your body as you get out of the chair. Once you've taken off, stay warm and prepare for what happens next.
Advice
- Make sure to wear comfortable shoes. Nobody wants embarrassing slips or falls to happen.
- Don't lose your confidence in yourself. Or act like you have it. If you feel like you did a horrible erotic dance, don't show it! Keep swinging those hips like no one's watching.
- Remember that this is all for fun and entertainment for you and your partner. If you don't want to do it or you think you're not ready, don't do it.
- Have fun!